I have never been a regular blogger, but I love to wright something when I feel spontaneously the pinch of my inner feelings in my own self. We have registered under Indian marriage act, just a couple of days before.And this is a blog that is dedicated to my (Would be?) Husband Ayan.
A very handsome man and I feel in some extent he is far better than me, in some practical issues. Our story has been started from Bharat Matrimony, when I have got bitter experiences from my past and was not ready to get involve with any CREATURE!
In such a situation I met him and some of his attitudes and minimum mannerism attracted me towards him. I became eager to know that is it a CREATURE or a Man actually! Other than my Dad he proved that the word CREATURE is not applicable for every male.
Some times some of his attitudes use to hurt me but I am a girl of Steel. So ignoring everything, my search for the perfect man in him continues. I knew it that every person have some defects and imperfections. I do have that. But that is not the scale to judge a man. And so with this imperfections I became ready to accept him as my partner . But for that it was mandatory to win Ayan's trust. I must say that it was the toughest time i this journey. From my personal experience I can say that only a girlfriend or wife of a Ph. D Scholar knows that what frustration is actually, under the guidance of Calcutta University. I have experienced
it every second because he is a Ph. D Scholar and being his partner I had to share his problems.
But it was my challenge too, that I will proof myself trustworthy. Because truly, situation was not in our favor.
Every time the problem appeared in different shapes and from different persons. We became anxious that how to handle the situation. It became a heavy pressure for me. But in this matter I became stone hard in my situation. I am thankful to my parents that though they have realized that the situation is not in my favor while I am standing with Ayan, yet they have supported me. And every day I use to get the power to hold him in that adverse situations.
But it is said that bad times never lust long. It became true. slowly the situations came under our control. we became able to convince our parents that we will be happy if we hold each other's hand. I am thankful to this adverse situations also, because these problems took us closer.
With this everything we decided to stay togather, for ever. Our family also supported him . But still the tension was not over. It's been so long, when we have smiled tension free. But I had full faith on my God, and with the blessing of that almighty, the problems started to be solved. My Ayan has got his ultimate reward. He is going abroad for his job. And I have also got my reward. It's Ayan's trust. He trust me blindly, which I can even feel.
He is so handsome, though I call him a ghost. Because his activities are just unbelievable. One can not have any Idea that what mischief he is going to happen. And the most mischievous mischief was when he told me that he want to marry me, so that he can do all those ghost like activities life long and he thinks I am the only person who can tolerate them.
And It happened! Mentally we were prepare for long time, but now with the blessings of our parents and family, we became the unbreakable pair for lifelong, legally.
Ayan always thinks that I only quarrel with him without compromising. but that idiot doesn't know that I can tolerate every mischief by him, but can not compromise with anything that is harmful for him. Because I love that ghost a lot.
A very handsome man and I feel in some extent he is far better than me, in some practical issues. Our story has been started from Bharat Matrimony, when I have got bitter experiences from my past and was not ready to get involve with any CREATURE!
Some times some of his attitudes use to hurt me but I am a girl of Steel. So ignoring everything, my search for the perfect man in him continues. I knew it that every person have some defects and imperfections. I do have that. But that is not the scale to judge a man. And so with this imperfections I became ready to accept him as my partner . But for that it was mandatory to win Ayan's trust. I must say that it was the toughest time i this journey. From my personal experience I can say that only a girlfriend or wife of a Ph. D Scholar knows that what frustration is actually, under the guidance of Calcutta University. I have experienced
But it was my challenge too, that I will proof myself trustworthy. Because truly, situation was not in our favor.
Every time the problem appeared in different shapes and from different persons. We became anxious that how to handle the situation. It became a heavy pressure for me. But in this matter I became stone hard in my situation. I am thankful to my parents that though they have realized that the situation is not in my favor while I am standing with Ayan, yet they have supported me. And every day I use to get the power to hold him in that adverse situations.
But it is said that bad times never lust long. It became true. slowly the situations came under our control. we became able to convince our parents that we will be happy if we hold each other's hand. I am thankful to this adverse situations also, because these problems took us closer.
He is so handsome, though I call him a ghost. Because his activities are just unbelievable. One can not have any Idea that what mischief he is going to happen. And the most mischievous mischief was when he told me that he want to marry me, so that he can do all those ghost like activities life long and he thinks I am the only person who can tolerate them.
And It happened! Mentally we were prepare for long time, but now with the blessings of our parents and family, we became the unbreakable pair for lifelong, legally.
Ayan always thinks that I only quarrel with him without compromising. but that idiot doesn't know that I can tolerate every mischief by him, but can not compromise with anything that is harmful for him. Because I love that ghost a lot.
